Here are some questions to get you going (these questions talk about your mum and dad, but equally could be used for grandparents, aunties, uncles etc...):
(1) Where and when were you born?
(2) What was your father's full name? Did he have a nickname?
(3) What was your mother's full name? Did he have a nickname?
(4) When and where did your parents marry?
(5) What work did your father do? Did you ever visit his workplace?
(6) Did your father/mother serve in the Army, Royal Navy or Royal Air Force?
(7) Did they receive any medals? Who has their medals?
(8) Do you have any photos of them?
(9) Did your parents ever talk about their own parents, perhaps their names, places of origins or their jobs?
(10) If family members are no longer living, when did they die and where are they buried?
(11) Do you have copies of old family documents like birth certificates, death certificates or their wills?
(12) What were the names of your brothers and sisters?
(13) Where and when were they born?
(14) Can you remember the family home when you were a child
(15) What school did you and your brothers/sister attend?
(16) Did the family attend a church, and if so which church?
(17) Do you have memories of other relatives
(18) Do you remember any family when you were young? Who was there and who was absent?
These are a selection to get yourself going. Sometimes it can be easier just to use one, and then let your interviewee talk about one area of their lives. If you think of other questions you can ask people, go for it? I have always been very inquisitive and, when I feel that I'm asking questions that are too personal, I just say you don't have to answer this but...
